Desire Mismatch in Relationships: Why It Happens and What Helps
Leyla Gulcur Leyla Gulcur

Desire Mismatch in Relationships: Why It Happens and What Helps

Differences in sexual desire are one of the most common challenges in long-term relationships. One partner may want sex more often, while the other feels less interested or avoids intimacy altogether. Over time, this can lead to frustration, pressure, resentment or emotional distance.

Read More
The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in Couples - and their Antidotes!
Leyla Gulcur Leyla Gulcur

The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in Couples - and their Antidotes!

Gottman's Four Horsemen are four negative communication styles identified by John and Julie Gottman in their research on couples. These styles are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. When these patterns of behavior become persistent and repeated, they can lead to the destruction of relationships.

Read More
The Sensate Focus Technique for Couples in Sex Therapy
Leyla Gulcur Leyla Gulcur

The Sensate Focus Technique for Couples in Sex Therapy

Sensate focus techniques teach partners to slow down, feel and get in touch with themselves and their partner without sacrificing each person's needs and desires. The goal here is not to rush to orgasm but to feel pleasure down to the tiniest detail.

Read More